Saturday, December 31, 2011

Have Your Man Wanting "Forever" With You

if you've invested a lot of time
into a relationship that's going nowhere and you
need to either finally get it on the right track
or move on...

Tell me:

Do you ever feel like it's impossible to
understand what a man is thinking when it comes
to "dating" and relationships?

Do you ever wish that you could just skip the
"games" and the uncertainty that come with dating
and get straight to something REAL?

If so, I want to share with you a way to get
the love and connection you're looking for... and
start finding and creating what you want.

There's something I want to know about you
first, though.

Are you dating a man who was very attentive
and loving in the beginning, but has slowly
CHANGED over time to being LESS LOVING and MORE
distant or annoyed with you?

In the beginning, you had high hopes for the
relationship. He called you all the time and was
very kind and generous with his affection.

You told all your friends what a great
guy he is, and how lucky you were to have found
him.

Things were going so great that you would say
to yourself,

"At last! A real man I truly connect with. I
better not screw this up!"

And it's then that the dating and relationship
nightmares from your past flash into your
mind...

You don't want to feel the pain you felt in the
past ever again... and you start to feel afraid
that the same things could happen again.

Your mind races with fear and anxiety.

But to keep it together you put faith in the
situation and in this man. You tell yourself that
it's different this time, and that he isn't one of
those other guys.

And to make sure things keep moving forward in
the right direction, you start trying a little
harder with him to get it right this time.

You make the effort to find out all about him,
understand him, and help him out with the things
that are going on for him in his life.

In the back of your mind you really hope he'll
recognize all the great things you're doing for
him, and how amazing you and your relationship can
be.

With all you're doing for him and your
relationship, he'd be crazy not to want to be with
you. Right?

But after a while, suddenly something starts to
feel WRONG...

That same easy and free way of loving and being
with each other suddenly feels different.

You realize how much you're doing for him and
all the ways you're trying... and suddenly it
hits you-

He isn't making much of an effort to do
anything for you or your relationship.

Not the way you are with him.

You try to be casual and ask him what he's
feeling and if everything is OK between you
because you're starting to feel a little worried
that something is wrong.

Instead of listening to you and your
feelings... he gets irritated and ANGRY with you.
As though you're "hassling" him.

After some arguing and back and forth, he seems
to shift gears in the conversation and says
something that really makes your heart SINK.

Something that you had a gut FEELING you'd hear
from him with everything that is going on.

He tells you,

"Look... you're great, but the truth is that
I'm not ready or in the right place for any kind
of 'serious' relationship right now."

And he goes on to tell you about all the things
going on in his life that are taking up his time
and energy... and that he doesn't know how to
settle down right now.

Ouch.

What's he talking about!?

How come he doesn't recognize or appreciate
all the things you bring to his life, and all the
things that you do for him?

Why did he do all the things he did, and why
did he SAY all those things that made you think HE
WANTED a relationship with you?

Now, if you've experienced a situation like
this with a man before... then I really feel for
you.

It STINKS.

How can you avoid going through this in the
future?

Put simply - by learning how the Commitment
Process works for a man.

You see, a man will decide whether or not a
relationship is working for him based on a very
simple formula:

What his EMOTIONAL EXPERIENCE is with you.

If a man feels that his life is better with you
in it, he will do whatever it takes to keep you
close for the long-term.

But if a man feels that somehow the
relationship is a whole bunch of "work," then he's
going to start to doubt if he should put any more
time and energy into it.

You already know what this looks and feels
like.

And as soon as this starts to happen, you sense
it, and everything comes unglued.

So what can you do about that?

The answer is NOT finding the right thing to
say when a man is already feeling this way with
you.

Big mistake.

It's time to start avoiding this difficult and
impossible situation altogether.

And that's what I want to show you.

It's time you learned how to build that kind
of "emotional experience" and connection that is
going to carry you through anything together - no
matter what.

And it's time you knew how this worked and put
it to good use- whether you've just started dating
or you've been together a while now.

Fortunately, the guess work of "trial and
error" trying to figure out what works is over,
since I've already made it easy to do with my
"From Casual To Committed" CD/DVD program.

Not only will you get in-depth tools and advice
on how to create the kind of "emotional
experience" that will inspire a man to want to be
with you and ONLY you, always...

But you'll also learn exactly what will trigger
a man's subconscious RESISTANCE to a commitment
with you, so that you don't "accidentally" make a
man think that you're NOT the woman he should be
with.

You'll also learn how to connect with your man
in a way NO OTHER WOMAN has before, so that he'll
naturally see and believe that you're "the one"
for him, and that he should hold on to you
forever.

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