if you're ready to make a fresh
start this year and finally learn the secret to
triggering powerful attraction in a man...
I want to share some fascinating insights with
you about why it might seem so impossible to meet
a good guy and find a new relationship.
First, I'd like to ask you-
Are you still single even though it seems to
you like you've been dating forever?
Do you almost feel embarrassed about how long
you've been single, or how many bad dates,
unavailable men and dead-end relationships you've
been through in the last few months or years but
you still haven't found a decent guy who will
stick around?
Maybe you're starting to feel wiped out by this
whole "dating thing."
After all, another year has gone by, and not
much has changed in your love life.
Sure, you've dated a few guys, or maybe you've
even been in a "serious" relationship.
But things haven't worked out.
It's the same story.
If you're into them, they're not into you.
And whenever things felt promising and hopeful,
something unexpected happened that ruined things.
He got busy, you moved away, he went back to
his ex, or you discovered a real "deal-breaker"
about him.
You're starting to wonder if things just aren't
going to work out for you when it comes to love,
and you'll just end up PERPETUALLY SINGLE.
And sure -
You keep telling yourself it's not so bad.
There are so many other great things you have
going for you in your life, like your career or
your friends and family.
But deep down, you don't want to be single
forever, do you?
You worry about it more often than you want to
admit.
But at the same time, it's almost as if you've
become pickier and more jaded each time you go out
on a date with a man.
Sure, he's attractive and "nice." But will he
call again? It's almost like you keep waiting for
the other shoe to drop, and this is when things
actually feel GOOD! Ugh.
You didn't used to feel this way.
You're starting to not only lose hope, but
you're losing MOTIVATION.
Bad sign.
But now a new year is about to begin, and the
beauty is that you can make a fresh start.
Starting TODAY.
It's never too late for a fresh start in your
life.
You deserve to have love in your life.
It's time you stopped being STARVED of love.
So in the spirit of a fresh start, let me ask
you a quick question.
What would you rather do at this point?
Would you rather:
A) Keep telling yourself that there's no good men
out there, and keep going along hoping a great guy
will just SHOW UP out of the blue one day and all
your love life problems will disappear - and RISK
possibly staying single forever if this never
happens?
Or...
B) Continue working HARD, but change NOTHING about
how you've been meeting and interacting with men,
because you think it's just a matter of time
before you "click" with someone - and again, risk
staying single for a long, long time?
Or...
C) Learn a NEW WAY to interact with a man in the
first 2 minutes of meeting him that will create
the kind of great IMPRESSION and powerful
ATTRACTION that could be the start of a great
relationship... and then keep on creating that
attraction with every word you say and every
minute you spend with him?
Which one would you rather do?
If you pick A or B, you can stop reading. I
don't want us to waste each other's time here.
But.
If you picked C, then I've got GREAT NEWS.
You're about to get 2 quick and easy tips on
EXACTLY WHAT TO DO and SAY to a man in the first
2 minutes of meeting that will increase your
chances like 200% for making a powerfully good
impression.
So let me set up the scenario.
Let's say you're at a party or at business
networking get-together or something.
You're there by yourself, and you're wondering
if you'll meet a man.
There are a lot of single men there, and you're
standing around trying to see which ones look
attractive to you, while at the same time trying
hard not to STARE.
And then it happens.
Someone accidentally runs into you and you
almost spill your drink.
You turn around, and as he apologizes, you
realize he's just about the MOST attractive man
you've seen all night.
You smile, he smiles, and suddenly you get that
"deer in the headlights" feeling as he grasps your
elbow and apologizes again and starts to walk
away.
But he's still looking at you, and smiling.
THIS IS THE MOMENT TOO MANY WOMEN BLOW IT.
This is when you want to say or do something
to get his attention, but your brain freezes and
you can't think of anything to say. So you end up
saying nothing.
Or worse.
You say something completely goofy and feel
embarrassed the second it comes out of you mouth.
Well... what if you had an easy and fun way to
make sure you got a chance to connect with that
man and create that spark of attraction inside him
when you wanted to?
What could you say or do in this moment that
would be sure to-
-Flirt with a man in a simple light way, without
feeling PUSHY to him?
-Get his interest, and let him know YOU'RE
interested?
-Avoid coming off as BORING and PREDICTIBLE like
other women great men meet and talk to?
Great questions.
Know the answer?
Don't worry, I've got the answers for you.
Here's what you should do FIRST:
ATTRACTION TIP #1: SIIMPLY HOLD HIS GAZE AND SMILE
This is a tip you can use in this particular
scenario as he's walking away, or you can do this
anytime if an attractive man is looking at you
from across a room.
You hold his gaze a little longer than feels
COMFORTABLE. Then smile. Then look away.
A minute or two later, you can repeat this if
you catch him looking your way.
If you do this three times, and if he's
interested, chances are PRETTY GOOD that he'll
walk up to you and start a conversation.
If he doesn't, that means that he's either
not single, or not interested. The key is to not
be too attached to the outcome. You opened up the
possibilities without being pushy or embarrassing
yourself.
So now that you have his attention, he's coming
over to say hi and talk to you.
What do you say? How do you act?
This is where I see a lot of women go wrong.
They revert to what I call totally BORING and
PREDICTIBLE conversation tactics.
They'll say something completely predictable or
"standard" out of not knowing what else to say, or
out of politeness.
It's usually at this point that the guy thinks,
"well, she LOOKED interesting. But she's nothing
special." His eyes glaze over, and he's off to
talk to someone else in the room.
You don't want that. Therefore -
ATTRACTION TIP #2: BE PLAYFUL, BE UNPREDICTIBLE.
Here's what you DON'T want to say within the
first 2 minutes of meeting a guy:
"Hi, I'm so-and-so. What's your name?"
And the dreaded-
"So what do you do for a living?"
Instead, you want to get his attention through
observation and compliments, but do it in a fun,
playful and unpredictable way.
If he's super tall, you don't want to ask him
"how's the view up there?"
He's probably heard that joke a million times,
and if he hears it from YOU, he'll categorize you
as just another BORING person and will be looking
for a reason to excuse himself.
Notice something about what he's wearing.
Notice the drink he's holding. The watch he's
wearing. His hairstyle.
One good tip is to say the OPPOSITE of what
you really think, or the opposite of reality. For
example, if he's wearing a very plain, standard
light blue button-down shirt, you can say,
"That's a crazy looking shirt." (you say as you
give him a playful smirk) "Did you buy that
yourself?"
If he's smiling, laughing and highly energized,
you can say,
"You gotta stop being so serious. You're making me
depressed." You say with a straight face while
looking directly into his eyes.
It won't be anything he'll expect to hear, and
it'll get his attention.
The key here is to BUILD ATTRACTION that goes
far beyond just looking good and being beautiful.
A man can think you look incredibly attractive
PHYSICALLY, and can approach you to get to know
you better, but if you don't do the crucial thing
of creating a level of intellectual or emotional
attraction, his interest level will sink.
Or - he'll find you physically attractive, and
he may just be interested in something "physical"
with you, but have ZERO interest in anything
deeper or romantic.
So he'll ACT interested, but he won't be. Not
in the way you want him to be.
That's how important INTELLECTUAL ATTRACTION
is.
You can be the hottest woman in a room, but if
you bore a guy with PREDICTIBLE, BORING
conversation, or make him "work hard" to keep up
his end of the conversation, he'll quickly
categorize you as someone he isn't interested in
pursuing.
As a matter of fact, the qualities of
playfulness and unpredictability are SO IMPORTANT
to attraction, they're one of my 6 Keys to
Attraction that I cover in detail in my "Natural
And Lasting Attraction" program.
These 6 Keys to Attraction are qualities and
personality traits that drive men WILD.
These are things you can do and say that make
a man STOP and TAKE NOTICE, and then later, he
won't be able to stop thinking of you.
He'll smile every time he thinks of the
conversation he had with you.
He won't be able to put his finger on it...
it'll be about the way you carry yourself, about
your confidence, about the way you made him FEEL.
He'll remember the way he felt so good on your
date together, and he'll feel compelled to want to
spend more and more time with you.
These 6 Keys to Attraction will make a man feel
that you're the kind of woman he's been looking
for, the kind he wants to spend his time with, the
kind he wants to HOLD ONTO no matter what.
All other women will suddenly feel not quite as
good, not quite as attractive to him.
And it's all because of the "magic" ingredient:
intellectual, emotional attraction.
You probably know yourself what kind of
attraction I'm talking about.
Have you ever felt intrigued and turned on by a
man, and you DIDN'T UNDERSTAND WHY?
He wasn't necessarily the handsomest, most
"together" man you knew... but you couldn't stop
thinking about him?
That's what emotional attraction FEELS like.
And there's a secret to triggering that in a
man.
If you're ready to stop wondering, worrying and
pondering HOW to be effortlessly and magically
compelling and irresistible to a man, then I have
the answer for you.
It's all spelled out in my "Natural And Lasting
Attraction" CD/DVD program.
In this program, I teach you powerful tips and
lessons on how to trigger deep attraction in a
man.
There is no other program quite like this out
there.
It's literally hours of valuable material -
in-depth and comprehensive, yet easy to understand
and FUN to learn.
I bring up this whole topic of instant
attraction and flirting because I recently sat
down with a woman who shared some awesome tips
with me on what a woman should do and say when
she meets a man.
Her name is Catrina Gregory, and she's
actually writing a very unique and intriguing
book for women about how to "take a lover."
Catrina thinks that dating and relationships
have changed in the last two decades.
For one thing, fifteen years ago, online dating
wasn't quite as popular as it is now.
Texting wasn't around. Cell phones were mostly
for business people with a reason to use them.
(Back then, people carried pagers! Remember that?
Crazy stuff.)
There was no Twitter. Or Facebook. Or MySpace.
Social networking was something you did at
cocktail parties, not on the computer.
But the Internet and technology aren't the
only things that've changed, according to Catrina.
The REASONS men and women date and have
relationships has changed, too.
Modern society has made it much easier for a
woman to take care of her own financial needs,
among other things.
Therefore, the RULES of dating have changed,
and so have the rules of FLIRTING and MEETING men.
Catrina shared some amazing modern flirting and
attraction tips and sample "conversations" to have
when you meet a man or when you're wanting to
figure out what kind of relationship you're in.
Her tips were real, work for any woman, and are
SPOT-ON in terms of what men love and respond best
to.
Here are some other amazing tips and insights
Catrina shared during our interview:
-You slept with him, and now you're wondering when
he'll call. Here's advice on what to do (and NOT
to do) in order to keep from messing up what might
be a good thing.
-How modern society has created a whole new REASON
for dating that transcends the traditional reasons
why women used to date in the past. Find out what
the "New Era" of dating is all about and whether
or not it can work for YOU.
-3 easy tips on how to TALK TO ANY MAN and the
one thing you shouldn't say in the first 5
minutes.
-The simple rule on how to give compliments to a
man in a way that will get you noticed, instead
of snubbed or dismissed.
-The 10 Rules for Taking a Lover - in other words,
the steps involved in having a physical-only
relationship with a man so that you don't have
weirdness or misunderstandings later on.
-Does your relationship eat up your life and are
you giving up who you really are for the sake of
a relationship? Find out what this says about
you and your dating style if you feel this way
often when you're dating or in a relationship.
-What does a man consider "FREEDOM" in a
relationship? It's a very different definition
for a man than it is for a woman.
-The specific situation that most men want to
strive toward in dating, how this might
challenge your relationships, and what to DO about
it.
-The 4 different ROLES that a man may play in your
life and why one of them can be EMOTIONALLY
DANGEROUS to you if you don't communicate your
desires clearly early on.
-How to know if you're a "PSW". Find out what this
means and why this can be a great option for you
if you've been having a hard time with dating and
relationships.
-How to HEAL from a broken, failed relationship
and release your negative, bitter feelings about
it through this empowering and fun idea.
-The ONE THING that can help you "get back out
there" after a failed relationship or if you've
been unsuccessful in dating and want to "restart"
your love life... this can actually change the
way you interact with everyone you meet.
-How to capture a man's interest in a simple, fun
way when you're out in public.
-What to do to feel more relaxed and SENSUAL if
you're feeling nervous when you're at a party or
out on the town and noticing an attractive man
nearby... so that you'll BE more attractive to a
man.
-Simple, non-embarrassing ways to "get your FLIRT
on."
-What to do if you've been flirting with an
attractive man and he didn't ask for YOUR NUMBER
before you walked away - a way to SALVAGE a
situation and keep the chances alive that isn't
threatening to either you nor him.
-You may know an OBVIOUSLY DANGEROUS man when you
meet him (he's abusive, has a substance abuse
problem, etc.) but would you know a SUBTLY
DANGEROUS man if you met him? Learn to recognize
the red flags of this kind of man before you get
too involved.
-And tons more.
Catrina had some amazing insights into how to
make the MOST out of being single if you're single
right now, but at the same time do what it takes
to find the one, right man to spend your life
with.
I think you'll be as fascinated as I was with
all the insights and tips Catrina shared during
our interview.
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