3 Ways Women Accidental​ly Push Men Away

Have you ever had a man break up with you or
pull away all of a sudden?

And you had no clue as to what caused it to
happen?

Because as far as you could tell, everything
was going great.

You were spending tons of time together. You
had an amazing "connection". And you KNEW that his
feelings for you were real.

He might have even said the "L" word to you
more than a few times.

LOVE.

But for some reason, he just pulled away one
day. And it left you breathless and wondering
what had just happened.

As the smoke cleared... and you started
thinking back on it, you remembered that his
behavior HAD changed awhile back.

And when it first did, it worried you.
Actually, it worried you a lot. But you tried to
ignore it.

And when you did say something to him about it,
after it had been "eating at you" for a while, it
only seemed to make things between you worse.

And he certainly didn't agree with or
understand where you were coming from or what you
were upset about or afraid of.

So you tried to put it out of your mind and
forget about it and hoped that it would just "go
away" on its own.

But the more you did this, the more upset and
frustrated you got, because you STILL felt like
something wasn't quite right underneath the
surface.

Something was going on inside him.
Something was making him withdraw from you
physically and emotionally.

Something had happened... and he was feeling
and acting differently with you as a result.

Something was wrong and you just couldn't put
your finger on what it was.

And THAT is when things started to go from bad
to worse, and you started to feel and act OUT OF
CONTROL.

The thoughts and feelings you were having
overwhelmed you with FEAR.

FEAR that he might not find you as attractive
as he used to.

FEAR that maybe there was someone else he was
interested in.

And ultimately, the FEAR that he was getting
ready to leave you... and you would lose him...
forever.

So, to try and combat this fear, you started to
act in ways that you NEVER would have acted
otherwise. Ways that even YOU didn't like about
yourself, and are probably even a little bit
ashamed to admit to now.

You started to see that even though it was
something you saw going on with HIM that was at
the root of the problem... YOU were the one who
was reacting in ways that were tearing your
relationship apart.

YOU couldn't let go of the fear that was
filling up inside you.

And as a result, you shut yourself off from him
and from the pain to try and protect yourself.

But he wasn't able to pull you up from this
place of anxiety and frustration by reassuring you
and giving you more love and understanding. And
things eventually got even worse as he pulled
further away.

In a way, your feelings and actions actually
caused the final breakup that you had feared to
begin with.

Does this situation sound familiar to you?

Have you ever felt so out of control or
overwhelmed with a man that you ended up actually
helping along the very situation you feared most?

Such as him LEAVING.

When a man you're with starts to act
"differently" - maybe he seems less interested in
you, or doesn't want to talk as much, or starts
hanging out with his friends more - it can be very
scary.

Immediately you think to yourself "What did I
do to make him upset or angry?" or "How can I 'get
him back' close to me again?"

That's only natural and understandable.

However, acting out in a negative,
emotionally-charged way only sets off a severe
reaction where you might begin to act or think
in destructive ways.

Some women even try and "pre-empt" the pain or
fear that they feel by pulling away or getting
distant FIRST.

Here are 3 of the most common ways women let
fear get the better of them and end up making men
want to pull away:

1. Becoming intensely negative, and accusing a
man of abandoning them or wanting to leave when he
acts "distant". This could be statements like,

"You don't love me anymore, do you?"
"I know you're thinking of breaking up with me."
"I can't stand how you're acting lately."

2. Finding ways to hurt or reject the man they're
with inside the relationship before he can hurt
THEM (this might include belittling, name-calling,
"nagging")

3. Acting out in ways that are sure to destroy
the relationship... such as cheating.

If you've seen other women go through this, or
you've done these yourself, then you already KNOW
that these ways of dealing with problems, fear, or
insecurity only get you farther away from what you
want - love and a more secure relationship.

And sure, there's almost nothing more
frustrating than being dedicated and committed to
a relationship, and then seeing that the other
person isn't as committed as you are. You might
find yourself SO hurt or afraid because of this,
that YOU become the one whose emotions and
behavior push you even farther apart.

It's enough to make you feel hopeless
sometimes.

Like you'll NEVER have a real and loving
relationship.

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The truth is, you can't rely on a man to fill
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I think you know that this is VERY UNLIKELY.

A man doesn't have all the power to give you
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You know that you can't "solve" your
relationship problems simply by telling a man how
he makes you feel - and then hoping he figures out
the rest of it.

It never works... and you KNOW it.

And if you're getting in your OWN way and
CAUSING the man in your life to pull away from
you, then just trying to change the things you're
saying on the surface isn't going to make things
that much better, either.

You've tried all this, and it hasn't worked.

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When you don't have this foundation together
for yourself, it doesn't matter WHAT you try and
say or do to a man... it doesn't come across the
right way. No matter how much you want things to
work he'll still be able to "see through you" and
see the insecurity, anxiety, or lack of
confidence.

And he'll walk the other way.

I'm sure you've heard only 10% of our
communication is direct and verbal.

That's why, when you DO have your own
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